It's that time of the year when it's only natural to think about how the past year went and how things might be different in the new year. I am making more changes than usual and am gradually altering my thinking towards embracing the new and not feeling as if I'm being dragged kicking and screaming from my usual routine. Even though this has been coming for awhile and is good, all change is stressful and, especially as I get older, hard to embrace. About a year and a half ago, we started designing a house that would be built on a small lake on property that has been in my family since the 1940s. To accomplish that, I had to kick out the deadbeat renters who were there, get the design going, and get the little shacks on the property torn down. There also were a couple of huge fir trees that unfortunately had to go. Somewhere around last January, the site was ready and the construction commenced. I had been trying to spend several months a year in Pa...